Quoting rubysanddiamonds:

I have been on this site and a few others for the past year and haven't found anyone. Most are too far away and I don't want to start a long distance relationship. Been there done that and it don't work very well. I'm about ready to give up myself. I get lonly too, but Im not going to settle for 2nds. Lifes too short. Maybe someday I'll meet Mr. Right. Wish me Luck!

I have been on this site and a few others for the past year and haven't found anyone. Most are too far away and I don't want to start a long distance relationship. Been there done that and it don't work very well. I'm about ready to give up myself. I get lonly too, but Im not going to settle for 2nds. Lifes too short. Maybe someday I'll meet Mr. Right. Wish me Luck!

Quoting Counselor:

Dear Wanda,
I love your attitude. I am a counselor for Equestrian Cupid, and many people that write to me are very negative and impatient when it comes to meeting someone. I can only try to encourage these people and try to help them get over their pessimistic reasoning. Thank you for your vote of encouragement. It soon becomes contagious.
Gary

Dear Wanda,
I love your attitude. I am a counselor for Equestrian Cupid, and many people that write to me are very negative and impatient when it comes to meeting someone. I can only try to encourage these people and try to help them get over their pessimistic reasoning. Thank you for your vote of encouragement. It soon becomes contagious.
Gary

Quoting CarrieA:

This site is a ripoff of the original EquestrianSingles.com.
They deliberately try to fool people. Luckily I found out before I paid a membership. And they do recurring billing. They do nothing to protect members from scammers. The real equestriansingles.com is vigiliant about warning members. If you don't want to be billed every month you need to cancel the membership.

This site is a ripoff of the original EquestrianSingles.com.
They deliberately try to fool people. Luckily I found out before I paid a membership. And they do recurring billing. They do nothing to protect members from scammers. The real equestriansingles.com is vigiliant about warning members. If you don't want to be billed every month you need to cancel the membership.

Quoting Olderhorseman51:

I posted this on mymulegus's blog first but it kind of fits here too

 

 
 

I posted this on mymulegus's blog first but it kind of fits here too

 

 
 

Quoting mymulegus:

I want to agree with what Wanda has to say.  I have been on different dating sites with mixed results.  E is one and everytime I am paired up with someone, I read their profile and then if interested I send my five questions to start the communication process.  This site is very much like submitting a resume. Rejection comes hard and swift and you have no way of asking why, whats wrong with me.  I looked like a good canidate, why was I rejected? This cowboy cupid site has yielded one smashing good friend and one riding buddy from too far away. I have encountered several scammers and chat with a few everyonce and a while.  This site was recommended to me by a girlfriend: I think of myself as a normal person who has horses and likes to do things with horses.  My ex was afraid of horses.  Well they are bigger than a dog but I can't ride my dog. I am not a trainer and I am not country.  The only time I listen to country music is during a break up or during a divorce! Back on track, I am starting to wander. I just filled out information for Ma.  I guess Dr. Phill recommends this site.  I do find more people in my area.  I do live in the sticks so to speak. I have not put down any money yet but it looks as if I will have to if I want to respond to anyone. Well what ever avenue you use for meeting different people has its flaws. Just be careful and have a good time.

I want to agree with what Wanda has to say.  I have been on different dating sites with mixed results.  E is one and everytime I am paired up with someone, I read their profile and then if interested I send my five questions to start the communication process.  This site is very much like submitting a resume. Rejection comes hard and swift and you have no way of asking why, whats wrong with me.  I looked like a good canidate, why was I rejected? This cowboy cupid site has yielded one smashing good friend and one riding buddy from too far away. I have encountered several scammers and chat with a few everyonce and a while.  This site was recommended to me by a girlfriend: I think of myself as a normal person who has horses and likes to do things with horses.  My ex was afraid of horses.  Well they are bigger than a dog but I can't ride my dog. I am not a trainer and I am not country.  The only time I listen to country music is during a break up or during a divorce! Back on track, I am starting to wander. I just filled out information for Ma.  I guess Dr. Phill recommends this site.  I do find more people in my area.  I do live in the sticks so to speak. I have not put down any money yet but it looks as if I will have to if I want to respond to anyone. Well what ever avenue you use for meeting different people has its flaws. Just be careful and have a good time.

I'll get to it if the sun shines and the creek don't rise.

Quoting shorty_06:

It seems that once a guy gets his feeelins hurt..he's nervous about committing.  They forget that women have been hurt too and we are told to keep positive.  When we were young and foolish we didn't place expectations on someone we were interested in.  We just  jumped in and gave our hearts.  As adults we are always looking for red flags.

It seems that once a guy gets his feeelins hurt..he's nervous about committing.  They forget that women have been hurt too and we are told to keep positive.  When we were young and foolish we didn't place expectations on someone we were interested in.  We just  jumped in and gave our hearts.  As adults we are always looking for red flags.

Quoting directblue:

Keep looking, lots of good guys out there.

Keep looking, lots of good guys out there.

Quoting horselovers40:

I too agree..its staying positive thru it all...I just signed up and i had 5 look at my profile but no emails or winks yet...I on the other hand winked and emailed a few but still no response. I guess time will tell. I also agree its so hard to show the true you on here...Picture speaks a thousand words but talking is just talk. I am a honest and sincere person who loves my horses and the time i spend with them and i only hope that people see thru that in my profile. But good luck and i am sure everything will go good...may you find what you are looking for...Lorna

I too agree..its staying positive thru it all...I just signed up and i had 5 look at my profile but no emails or winks yet...I on the other hand winked and emailed a few but still no response. I guess time will tell. I also agree its so hard to show the true you on here...Picture speaks a thousand words but talking is just talk. I am a honest and sincere person who loves my horses and the time i spend with them and i only hope that people see thru that in my profile. But good luck and i am sure everything will go good...may you find what you are looking for...Lorna

Quoting moonshadow1:

Expectations and assumptions may play a bigger part to your question then you have considered.  The other thing that is a big challenge for many people is presenting themselves as they really are to a computer screen, without seeing facial gestures, hearing expressions in one's tone of voice and being able to read any body language cues.  So, we try and we hope and we learn more about ourselves on this platform then perhaps we do about the other.  Your choice to remain positive, happy and hopeful is delightful.(within your profile).. there are great people in this world to still be found or those that are still looking that have unfortunately not found you yet.  With so many options of seeking someone, it is hard to know where to put your moneys worth to "try" your luck.  It does happen and so I say... be patient... keep trying... and enjoy the process as much as you can.  The key for me is to be appreciative and flexible with the many options available for connecting with others.  May you find comfort in these words and best wishes to you for remaining confident along the way :)
Wanda~

Expectations and assumptions may play a bigger part to your question then you have considered.  The other thing that is a big challenge for many people is presenting themselves as they really are to a computer screen, without seeing facial gestures, hearing expressions in one's tone of voice and being able to read any body language cues.  So, we try and we hope and we learn more about ourselves on this platform then perhaps we do about the other.  Your choice to remain positive, happy and hopeful is delightful.(within your profile).. there are great people in this world to still be found or those that are still looking that have unfortunately not found you yet.  With so many options of seeking someone, it is hard to know where to put your moneys worth to "try" your luck.  It does happen and so I say... be patient... keep trying... and enjoy the process as much as you can.  The key for me is to be appreciative and flexible with the many options available for connecting with others.  May you find comfort in these words and best wishes to you for remaining confident along the way :)
Wanda~